Intentional Man

They jump at the bit of opportunity the moment they find women who grab their attention, pulling out every weapon in their arsenals to attract them.

“You’re so beautiful.” “Why are you single?” “Let me take you out sometime. I’m not like the rest.”

I’m sure this is the most familiar line to every single man. For ladies, we feel it’s so unnatural, and it’s far from genuine. But somehow, we’ve allowed it.

“You deserve someone who is intentional and very clear about their feelings for you”.

“You should not have to sit around and wonder about how they feel about you”

Wake up, ladies! Imagine a man who is always one step ahead of you. Who treats you the way Harry treats Meghan? Intentionality is key in this 21st century.

Intentionality Of Men

21st-century women are in love with intentional men. We love a man who does his best to show us how much he cares about us, how much he can open up his feelings without holding back. Women can tell when a man is putting in a lot of effort to get her attention. As fierce, independent women, we like to think that we don’t need men. We can change our tires…open our jars…move our furniture…Still, it sure is nice to have men around. 

Things A Lady Looks Out For In A Man

Guys: Consider this a love letter from us to you. 

 Their Scents.

 We love men who put in the effort to smell nice. The smell of his body wash has to be on point. His aftershave. His cologne….. oh Lala…. Their natural, musky fragrance. All of it combines to create a perfume we can’t help wanting to envelop ourselves in. 

 Their brains.

 It’s been scientifically proven that the male brain is different from the female brain. We’re not sure if that’s what makes them enjoy wedges, football, and Star Wars or not. Either way, their essential “maleness,” and their appreciation for our “femaleness” makes us feel pretty special about being women and that is awesome. 

Their sense of humor

A man with a great sense of humor is all it takes and this can never be overemphasized! We love when they charm us with jokes, that they think bodily functions are funny (we sometimes do, too), and the fact that they make us laugh at our shortcomings and not take ourselves too seriously.

Their natural protectiveness.

Goodness! This is the ultimate best! Subconsciously, it brings out the “awwnnnn” side of a lady. It makes us smile when they walk on the outside, nearest to the traffic, or extend a hand to help us up a steep incline or worry that we’re going to get kidnapped. Because, even if we can protect ourselves, it’s nice to feel taken care of.

Their ability to do and understand things we can’t.

 We hate having to rely on anyone but ourselves but, sometimes it’s just easier to ask him to take care of it. we always ask him to carry heavy objects up the stairs (that’s mainly because of laziness; we’re perfectly capable), hang pictures, and kill large, scary bugs. Though after that time he pretended to throw that bug carcass at us and we screamed like a 5-year-old girl, we might not ask him again.

Their secret sensitive side.

 When a guy cries in front of you, it can feel as if you’ve won the emotional lottery. Tears are a sign of extreme intimacy, and the fact that he’s let down his guard probably means that he cares about you deeply and trusts you. We also love it when we catch our man staring at us with what can only be described as “tenderness.” And when he pulls us close for a quick hug, or kisses the top of our heads, our hearts just melt.

 Their undying passion for us…even when we’re wearing granny panties.

 In a world that values appearance over so many other traits, it’s a nice feeling to know that your man desires you even when you’re wearing unsexy pajamas, haven’t shaved your legs in a week, and have an emerging zit in the center of our foreheads. After all, they’re not so perfect themselves, and we still love them. When it comes down to it, we’re not so different after all. 

CONCLUSION

As a man, it’s key to be intentional about your actions when making a move. Love me a man who cleans up nice.

“True love doesn’t happen by accident. It’s deliberate, it’s intentional, and it’s purposeful, and in the end…. It’s worth it ”