QUESTIONS

There are so many questions I would like to ask. These questions are a glimpse of how I feel. These are random thoughts and are not synchronized in any way. Feel free to add yours or a reply in the comment section.

This write-up looks at a lot of different questions that we all think about in our lives. We talk about how moms balance work and family, why people behave the way they do, and how we feel about ourselves. We also explore why things in nature, like the weather or plants, are the way they are. This is a journey through many questions that help us understand our lives better, from our challenges to the big wonders of the world around us.

1. How many mothers have successful careers?
2. Why do I have to figure out what my family eats for dinner all day, every day?
3. Why did it rain in December?
4. Why is every headache, body pain, and fever always seen as malaria?
5. Why do people weigh our social status before knowing how to address us?
6. Why do some men cheat?
7. Why do some women accept being treated as less important?
8. Why do career women act and feel like they do not belong at the table?
9. Why do I doubt myself and my abilities?
10. How do I lose weight and keep it off?
11. How do I make friends?
12. How do I maintain long-lasting relationships?
13. How to always stay happy regardless of my surroundings?
14. How not to look like my problems?
15. When will I attend a typical Naija wedding?
16. When will I go out freely and have fun without guilt?
17. Why is Lagos a crazy place to be?
18. Why do bus drivers in Lagos drive so dangerously?
19. Why do I go mute when angry?
20. How does this impact my relationships and communication?
21. How should a wife balance her individual identity with her identity as a partner?
22. Why does a career have a huge role to play in self and personal fulfillment?
23. How many women balance wife, motherhood, and career?
24. What are the compromises?
25. Why is the balance between personal and professional life often more challenging for women than men?
26. Who decides what a “good wife” should be?
27. How many women have their dreams come to pass?
28. How many people wish they were someone else?
29. Can a broken heart ever love again?
30. Why do some men get so busy, they don’t find time to love their spouses?
31. Why are there so many religions, yet there is so little love?
32. What is the truth behind why people go to war?
33. Why are Gen-Z’s so daring?
34. When you look into the mirror, who do you see?
35. Why do we attach wisdom to age?
36. Why do we sometimes feel lonely even when we are with people?
37. Why do we sometimes judge people before we know them?
38. Why do some people find it hard to ask for help?
39. What makes some people more patient than others?
40. How do people stay hopeful in tough times?
41. What makes the colors of a sunset change?
42. How do birds know where to fly when they migrate?
43. Why do flowers have so many different shapes and colors?
44. What causes the sound of thunder during a storm?
45. How do rivers change the land as they flow?
46. Why do we have different seasons throughout the year?
47. Why do some plants grow better in shade than in sunlight?
48. How is a rainbow formed and why does it have so many colors?
49. How do forests recover after a wildfire?
50. How do mountains affect the climate of a region using places like Jos and Enugu as examples?

As we go through life, every question we ask helps us learn more about ourselves and the world around us. Whether we’re thinking about small things or big feelings, each question is important. Let’s keep being curious and brave as we look for answers. Together, our questions and discoveries make life more interesting and help us understand each other better.