Being Human

Discovering another intriguing course, “Nature of Human Beings,” was a revelation I had not anticipated. Leading up to the initial session, I contemplated the potential advantages this course could offer. Consequently, when Dr. Kemi Ogunyemi commenced the class by inquiring about my learning points from the extensive reading materials on the Elearn platform, I found myself in a state of bewilderment. Admittedly, I had previously perused the materials, but the prospect of absorbing nearly 200 pages just days before the session left me grappling with a sense of reluctance. It prompted reflections on the contemporary inclination towards less extensive reading, a characteristic I pondered upon in comparison to our life’s predecessors, especially those not heavily invested in academia.

The “Nature of Human Beings” delves into the essential traits and behaviors inherent in humans to facilitate personal growth toward our optimal selves. It encompasses an examination of psychological, sociological, and biological aspects to unravel the intricacies that define our identity. This exploration encompasses a spectrum of behaviors, ranging from the seemingly simple, such as smiling, laughing, and crying, to more complex actions like communication, eating, and sleeping, along with the display of empathy towards others. Additionally, the course explores higher-order behaviors like learning, problem-solving, and artistic creation. The richness and complexity of human behavior contribute to the captivating nature of studying this subject.

During her lectures, Dr. Kemi underscored the importance of effectively managing our internal senses, particularly memory and imagination. To optimize memory, strategies such as repetition, organization, and the use of mnemonic devices are emphasized. Establishing a structured routine and adopting a healthy lifestyle are recommended to support memory function. In the realm of imagination, cultivation can be fostered through activities like reading, seeking out new experiences, and participating in creative endeavors. Maintaining mindfulness and incorporating relaxation techniques are crucial elements in achieving a harmonious balance between memory and imagination.

Moreover, Dr. Kemi directed the exploration of three key books to provide clarity on the course’s trajectory. These books— “Tuesdays with Morrie,” “The Phantom Tollbooth,” and “Man’s Search for Meaning”— though diverse in themes and narratives, converge in offering profound insights into the human experience, personal development, and the pursuit of meaning. The common thread weaving through these disparate works can be encapsulated as follows:

1. Quest for Meaning:

The pursuit of meaning by humans encapsulates our inherent yearning to discover purpose and significance in our existence. This journey involves the exploration of answers to existential inquiries like “Why are we here?” and “What is the purpose of life?” Diverse individuals may uncover meaning through various avenues, such as personal relationships, achievements, spirituality, or contributing to the broader well-being. It constitutes a profoundly personal and introspective expedition that leads to fulfillment and a sense of direction in our lives.

2. Learning and Growth:

The pursuit of learning and growth is vital for humans as it enables the expansion of knowledge, the acquisition of new skills, and the ability to adapt to the dynamic world surrounding us. Whether through formal education or personal experiences, engaging in learning exposes us to fresh perspectives, ideas, and avenues. This continual learning process keeps us curious, motivated, and intellectually stimulated. Furthermore, personal growth facilitates the exploration of our strengths, the overcoming of challenges, and the realization of our full potential. It signifies a lifelong journey that brings fulfillment, self-improvement, and a profound understanding of both ourselves and the world we inhabit.

3. Relationships:

The need for relationships alongside an awareness of mortality is ingrained in the human experience. We are social beings who thrive on connection and belonging. Meaningful relationships provide us with emotional support, companionship, and a sense of belonging. They contribute to our overall well-being and happiness.

4. Power of attitude:

The power of attitude is truly remarkable! Our attitude shapes how we perceive and respond to the world around us. It influences our thoughts, emotions, and actions. With a positive attitude, we can approach challenges with resilience, find opportunities in difficult situations, and maintain a hopeful outlook. It can inspire us to keep going, overcome obstacles, and achieve our goals. Remember, a positive attitude can make all the difference in how we experience life. So, let’s keep that positive mindset.

5. Personal responsibility:

Personal responsibility is important to humans. It means taking ownership of our actions, choices, and the consequences that come with them. When we embrace personal responsibility, we become accountable for our lives, self-impact, and others. It empowers us to make conscious decisions, learn from our mistakes, and strive for personal growth. By taking responsibility, we can create positive change, build trust, and cultivate a sense of integrity. It’s all about being proactive and recognizing that we have the power to shape our own lives. So, let’s embrace personal responsibility and make the most of it.

In conclusion, delving into the study of the nature of human beings reveals a treasure trove of insights spanning various aspects of our existence. From exploring the complexities of human behavior to understanding the intricate interaction of nature and nurture, we gain a better understanding of the dynamic and multifaceted nature of humanity. It is a journey that appreciates the beauty of diversity and embraces the resilience of the human spirit as well as our quest for meaning. Let us keep exploring and celebrating the wonders of being human together.