TRUST MATTERS

Sometimes I sit and wonder why some people who call themselves friends turn to become worse enemies after a while but being a Christian makes me not wonder any longer since the Christian’s holy book [The Bible] clearly states in Matttew chapter 10 verse 36 that “Our enemies are members of our household”.
People who hurt us more aren’t distant people, they are people very close to us because they know more about us than any other person.
Life as we know it is filled with lots of ups and downs. There are lots of uncertainties, and there are things we just do not expect some people to do to us,but what do we know – Life happens. Yeah right, when life throws you a lemon, making lemonade from it can be easier said than done.

I tastes a bit of that pie during the cause of the week when the revelation of some confidential information I had given to a confidant was spilled to me by a friend who was not supposed to be in the know of this, -how he got this information still remains a mystery to me although he claims he cloned my WhatsApp, which is still a very funny information to me. Well, he got to have these details was one thing, and the manner in which told me about them was an entirely different scenario I had to deal with as I did not know which was harder to bear, the pain of him getting to know these of me or the manner in which he told me of them.,
Well, the cat is out of the bag, so what’s up? – I am also confused if I am sort of relieved, he got to know about this piece of information, well. . . it’s all good. This is happening just few weeks after resumption at LBS.

So why do people backstab others? – is it for the momentary good they somewhat stand to gain from the people they are backstabbing others to or is it for the fun of it?
I believe in honesty, confidentiality, I believe in loyalty, I believe in trust I believe in friendship and when I get a lot of responsibility bestowed on me cos of the trust the person has for me, I ensure to do my best, so it is not thrown into the gutters and I hope others thread in such paths as it will help solidify and keep relationships stronger and better.