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Being a hyper woman is hard!

Abimbola Kayode-Badmus Written by Abimbola Kayode-Badmus · 1 min read >

It’s already hard being a woman, adding hyperactivenss to it, May God help you. 

No, I do not go through his phones. I certainly do not have suspicions at his every move. No, I do not bother that he is hanging out. Not like I also care how his hard earned money is spent, but YES, I will always ask questions when the need shows itself. 

Bimbo, what happened gan gan?

This beautiful day, my husband and I were on our way out to go check some apartments, so in his ‘benevolence’ he showed me an interesting conversation he had with someone. While the chat was just something to laugh about, I decided to check some other messages, just maybe I could laugh some more. Kai!!!

What did I see?

 You know how you can see the last message in a chat before you open it, I saw someone say ‘my Sugar Daddy’. Sorry not just someone, A GIRL!! 

My countenance immediately changed. A billion and one things came to mind. 

Is it that I’m not billing this man enough? Is it that I’m being too good and some nonesense, toothpicked, dirty girl is out there milking my husband of our family’s hard earned money? 

Lord, what should I do? Should I confront him? Should I wait to catch him red handed? Should I open this message? Or should I just assume it’s one of those things?

In all honesty, and although my husband doesn’t know this; cheating is not a deal breaker for me. Disrespect is. 

An interesting line in one of Simi’s popular songs is, ‘lie to me, if the truth will break my heart’. As much as it’s painful that one is being lied to, in some cases, I would rather you are not bold enough to tell the truth. 

What did I do?

I gave him back his phone, while I sulked through the rest of the journey. The sugar daddy in question did not even notice I was sulking, because apparently, I look cute when I sulk, so he doesn’t really mind. 

I have not decided on the best approach for this. 

Guys, what do you think I should do? PS: this happened two days ago, so it’s still a fresh injury. 

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